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We are bridging the gap between your inbox and your calendar.

We do the swiping and the texting. You show up for the drink.

Software we built writes every message on your own dating account, in a voice you wrote and corrected, inside the hours you set. Not a person, not a call centre, and nothing invented about you.

Launch price 149 € a month · regular price 249 € a month from 1 January 2027

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Who does what

You

  • Create and verify the account on your own phone.
  • Tell us who you are, who you want to meet, and how you talk.
  • Set the rules and the hours, and correct anything that is not you.
  • Read every thread in the panel, whenever you want.
  • Pick the day, the place and the time, and go to the date.

Get Closer

  • Swipes to the taste you showed it, one profile at a time.
  • Writes the first message and answers hers, in your voice.
  • Keeps to your hours, every day, and answers in minutes rather than seconds.
  • Shows you everything it sent, exactly as it went out.
  • Hands you the thread when she is willing to meet, then stops.

In plain words

What this actually is.

Six questions everyone asks before they read anything else. Here they are, answered in the order people ask them.

Software writes the messages, not a person

An AI we built writes every line, in your voice, from an about-me you wrote and corrected and under rules you set. Nobody sits in a room flirting as you, and nothing about you is invented.

It runs on your own account

You create it and verify it yourself, on your own phone. We run it on a device of its own, one per customer, over a connection reserved for a handful of our customers, never a public proxy pool.

You approve the persona and the rules

How you talk, what is off limits, the hours it may write in, and which contacts it hands over: only ones you entered yourself, in the order you chose. Change any of it and the next cycle follows the new version.

You can read everything it sent

Every thread and every message, in your panel, exactly as it went out. There is no hidden half, and nothing is summarised for you.

It stops when she is willing to meet

The swiping is done to your taste, the first message goes out, the conversation is held inside your hours. Then the thread is handed to you on the channel you chose. It never fixes a day, a time or a place, and we promise you no number of dates.

29 € to find out, then 149 € a month or 297 € for three

Prepaid time. Nothing renews, and nothing is taken again unless you start it. Bitcoin or Lightning, no card, no bank, no legal name.

The grind

You can match. What you cannot do is text five women for three weeks.

This is not for the man who gets nothing back. It is for the one who matches fine and is worn out by everything that comes after it. The complaints first, in the words people use for them, then what this does about each.

Most conversations go absolutely nowhere.

It keeps answering, warmly and in your voice, until there is somewhere to go.

Texting five women for three weeks, on top of a job.

It does the texting. Reading along is optional, and the panel is always there.

Threads die in the hours you cannot look at your phone.

It answers inside the hours you set, every day, in minutes rather than seconds.

No pen pals. Days of messages and no mention of meeting.

It works toward her wanting to meet, hands you the thread, and stops there.

The same opener fifty times, and then nothing.

Every first message is written for her profile. You can read all of them.

An hour of swiping before anyone is worth a message.

It swipes to the taste you corrected, and you keep correcting it.

How it works

Four steps, and then you are out of it.

Nothing here is a form you fill in. The first two steps are a conversation with us, and they are where the whole thing is decided.

Step 1

A first conversation

Half an hour about who you are, who you want to meet, and the things you would never say. It is not optional, and it is not a questionnaire.

Step 2

Your taste and your voice

We write down who you are looking for and how you talk, then hand both back to you. You correct them before a single message goes out.

Step 3

It runs on your own account

Your profile, your photos, your phone. Nothing is created and nobody is invented. You can read every message it sent, whenever you want.

Step 4

The handoff

When a match is ready to meet, she is handed to you on the channel you chose. You pick the day, the place and the time yourself.

Your voice

It writes like you, or it is worth nothing.

We are bridging the gap between the man you are and the man the app shows.

Short replies that sit at her length. No soft emoji. It never asks her name, because her name is on the screen. It never ends a thread on a full stop.

An account we run ourselves, 2026A match who had written nothing but a smiley.
  1. 😁
  2. That smile says you did something and the 2 bears are your alibi haha
  3. you caught me 🫣
  4. Haha I knew it
  5. you look way too innocent next to them, suspicious
  6. suspicious? haha where are you?
  7. Right here in the city. and yes, still suspicious haha
  8. u live here too?
  9. You'll have to take me on a date to find out 😏
  10. Haha deal, Im in
  11. heads up, next 2 weeks are crazy with work. so we keep talking here and meet right after, where r u near anyway?

Eleven lines. She proposed the date.

From an account we run ourselves, with names and place details changed. Text only: no photo of anyone, no screenshot, and no other customer's conversation, ever.

The same account, a week laterShe asks for Instagram.
  1. Do you have insta?
  2. Haha im barely on insta, u would wait forever for a reply 🐒
  3. Rather see u in person anyway
  4. A drink is still on when Im back
  5. Ahhh
  6. I'm not really online here, sometimes it not noticed me. But it's okay
  7. I reply here fast, dont worry 🐒
  8. U not getting rid of me that easy

No penpal on a channel he does not use. Once she is ready to meet, the thread moves to the channel he chose, and the drink gets planned there.

Your voice

  • Match her cadence. Roughly her length, often five words.
  • Never ask a question her profile already answers.
  • Never close a conversation, not even after she says yes.
  • Hold a frame: warm, never needy, never dismissive.

Those four are lifted from the real rules file the replies are held to, not written for this page.

Control

A human stays at the wheel.

Every switch that matters is yours, and it takes effect on the next cycle, not at the end of a month.

Per-match switches

Archive one, bring one back, or tell it to answer her now.

You write, it steps back

Write to her yourself in the app and it steps back from that thread.

Your hours

It writes inside the hours you set and is silent outside them.

Stop, at any time

Pause the whole thing from the panel. Nothing is queued up behind your back.

What it will not do

  • It never fixes a day, a time or a place inside the app. That is yours.
  • It never hands out a contact you did not give it.
  • It stays quiet through the night in your own time zone, roughly from the small hours until breakfast.
  • It never invents a fact about you. What it does not know, it does not answer.

Proof

Things you can check, rather than things we claim.

We publish no figure for how often this works, because we could not stand one up. Here is what exists instead.

One real timeline

Opener, her reply, the turn where it changes, the handoff, with the hours between them.

The panel, as it is

The board your conversations sit in, shown here with invented matches rather than anyone real.

The taste view

The screen where you correct its judgement, one profile at a time, until it matches yours.

The control surface

Your hours, the sending and swipe switches, archive and revive. The same switches described above.

Duration, not a rate

It has run daily on an account we run ourselves since the summer of 2026.

The written voice guide

The actual rules the replies are held to. Publishing the craft is how you know it exists.

The conversation boardDemo data
The panel's conversation board: six counters across the top for active chats, replies waiting on the bot, messages and replies today, who likes you right now and unopened matches, then a searchable, filterable grid of match cards.
The taste viewDemo data
The taste view: today's swipe count against the daily cap, filters for deck and admirers and for liked, passed or skipped, and a grid of judged profiles, each tagged with the verdict, the source and how confident the bot was.
The control surfaceDemo data
The control surface: the sending window with the current time on your clock and on the bot's own, switches for message sending and the two swipe lanes, an archive switch per match.

The three pictures above are the product's own screens, filled with invented matches and neutral placeholders. We never publish a picture of a real conversation or a real person.

The accounts behind these examples are our own. We say so plainly, because it is the only honest way to show it.

Straight answers

The questions people actually ask.

None of these has a comfortable answer, so here are the true ones instead of the reassuring ones.

Is this not deceitful?

It writes from your profile, your stories and your rules, and it never invents a fact about you. The man she meets is the man who wrote the rules. What you would not say does not go out.

Will she notice?

She might, and we will not tell you otherwise. What we can say is that nothing is oversold, nothing is made up, and you have read the whole thread before you meet her.

If the messages are not mine, am I accountable for them?

They are yours. You set the rules, you can read every line, you can take a thread back by writing in it yourself, and you are the one who turns up.

Could I get banned for this?

Dating apps restrict automation in their terms and enforce it as they see fit. We make no promise about their decisions and we will not tell you otherwise. It is your account and your choice, and you can stop it at any time.

Will the messages just be generic?

That is the real risk, and it is why the voice document is written before anything runs. Short replies at her length, never a question her profile already answered, and you correct any line that is not you.

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Privacy & payment

We never need your legal name.

You pay us, so we have no reason to keep, sell or mine anything about you. That is the whole business model, and it is why the payment works the way it does.

Bitcoin and Lightning

No card, no bank, no legal name. A payment tops up your time with us; nothing renews on its own and nothing is taken again unless you start it.

What we store

Your e-mail address, so we can reach you. Your password, as a hash nobody here can read. On machines we run ourselves. Your conversations are drafted by an AI model. The messages your bot writes and reads pass through the model provider we use for that; nothing else of yours leaves the machines we run ourselves.

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Pricing

One price, with every condition beside it.

Nothing renews. There is no subscription you have to remember to cancel.

Trial

Find out cheaply whether it sounds like you.

29 €once

Launch price 29 € · regular price 69 € from 1 January 2027

Choose

How the trial ends

  • It ends after 7 days, or the moment you hand a match your own WhatsApp or handle, whichever comes first.
  • The 29 € is credited against whichever package you take next.
  • One trial per person. It does not renew and it does not become a subscription.

Monthly

The normal way in. One month at a time, nothing renews.

149 €a month

Launch price 149 € a month · regular price 249 € a month from 1 January 2027

Choose

What you get

  • Your account run every day, inside your hours.
  • Your voice, written down and corrected by you.
  • The panel, with every message it sent.
  • The handoff, on the channel you chose.
  • Support by e-mail.

How it is billed

  • Prepaid time: you buy a period and it runs out.
  • Bitcoin or Lightning at checkout.
  • No renewal. Nothing is taken again unless you start it.
  • No card and no bank.
  • No legal name.

Three months

Best value

The same thing, prepaid for longer.

99 €a month

297 € once, for three months

Launch price 99 € a month · regular price 199 € a month from 1 January 2027

Choose

297 € for three months. Three single months at the launch price come to 447 €.

What you get

  • Your account run every day, inside your hours.
  • Your voice, written down and corrected by you.
  • The panel, with every message it sent.
  • The handoff, on the channel you chose.
  • Support by e-mail.

How it is billed

  • Prepaid time: you buy a period and it runs out.
  • Bitcoin or Lightning at checkout.
  • No renewal. Nothing is taken again unless you start it.
  • No card and no bank.
  • No legal name.

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Honesty

Who this is not for

If one of these is you, we would rather say so now than take the money.

  • You want a number of dates promised in advance. We do not promise one.
  • You want someone else on the date too. We stop at the introduction.
  • You would rather not be asked anything about yourself. The first conversation is the product.
  • You are looking for the cheapest option. This is not it.
  • You want it to say things you would never say. It writes in your voice or not at all.

We are bridging the gap between wanting to meet someone and having the time to.

Start with the trial.

29 € once. It ends after 7 days or at your first handoff, and it comes off whatever you take next.

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