How it works
The long version of what happens.
The short version is on the front page. This is all of it, in the order you will live it, including the parts that are work for you.
The first conversation
Half an hour, by voice, before anything is set up. It decides whether the rest is any good, which is why it is not optional.
What we ask
Where you live and how long you have been there. What you do, in the words you would use at a bar rather than the ones on a CV. Who you are actually trying to meet, and who you are not. How you sound when you are interested, and how you sound when you are not. And the handful of things you would never say to anyone.
How long it takes
Thirty minutes, usually a little more. One conversation, not a series of forms, and you do not prepare for it.
What comes out of it
Two short written documents, in your hands within a day or two: who you are looking for, and how you talk. Nothing runs until you have read both.
Your taste and your voice, written down
Not a personality setting and not a slider. Two plain documents you can read, argue with and change.
What is in them
The taste document says who gets a like and who does not, in your terms. The voice document says how a reply of yours is built: how long it runs, what it does with a question, when it teases and when it does not, the words you use and the ones you never would.
You correct them
Line by line, before the first message goes out. “I would never say that” is the most useful sentence in the whole process, and we would rather hear it on day one than in week three.
And you keep correcting them
Every message it sent is in the panel. When one is off, you say so and the document changes. That is in every package, for as long as you are with us.
- 😁
- That smile says you did something and the 2 bears are your alibi haha
- you caught me 🫣
- Haha I knew it
- you look way too innocent next to them, suspicious
- suspicious? haha where are you?
- Right here in the city. and yes, still suspicious haha
- u live here too?
- You'll have to take me on a date to find out 😏
- Haha deal, Im in
- heads up, next 2 weeks are crazy with work. so we keep talking here and meet right after, where r u near anyway?
Eleven lines. She proposed the date.
From an account we run ourselves, with names and place details changed. Text only: no photo of anyone, no screenshot, and no other customer's conversation, ever.
- Do you have insta?
- Haha im barely on insta, u would wait forever for a reply 🐒
- Rather see u in person anyway
- A drink is still on when Im back
- Ahhh
- I'm not really online here, sometimes it not noticed me. But it's okay
- I reply here fast, dont worry 🐒
- U not getting rid of me that easy
No penpal on a channel he does not use. Once she is ready to meet, the thread moves to the channel he chose, and the drink gets planned there.
It runs on your own account
Your profile, your photos, your phone, your city. Nothing is created and nobody is invented.
Hours and pace
You set the hours it may write in. Inside them it answers in minutes, not seconds, and not everything the moment it lands. Outside them it is silent.
A human stays at the wheel
Every switch is yours and takes effect on the next cycle: pause the whole thing, archive one match, bring one back, or tell it to answer her now. Write to her yourself in the app and it steps back from that thread.
What it never does
- It never fixes a day, a time or a place inside the app. That is yours.
- It never hands out a contact you did not give it.
- It stays quiet through the night in your own time zone, roughly from the small hours until breakfast.
- It never invents a fact about you. What it does not know, it does not answer.
The handoff
The point of the whole thing, and the point where it stops.
What it looks like
When a match is ready to meet, you get her on the channel you chose, with the conversation so far and where it stands. From that message on it is you: you pick the day, the place and the time, and it writes nothing further in that thread.
When the trial ends
The 29 € trial ends at your first handoff or after 7 days, whichever comes first. So it ends either because it worked or because you found out cheaply that it did not, and the 29 € comes off whichever package you take next.
What you see, week by week
There is no report to wait for. The panel is the same view we have.
The first week
The taste view fills with profiles it judged, and you correct the ones it got wrong. The first conversations open. This is the week where your corrections are worth the most.
From the second week
Conversations sit on the board with where each one stands. You read them when you feel like it, or not at all. Corrections get rarer, because the documents are closer to you.
At any time
Every message it sent, exactly as it went out. Your hours, your pause switch, your per-match switches. Nothing is hidden and nothing is summarised for you.
Honest limits
Said here, rather than discovered in week two.
- It cannot rescue a profile nobody is matching with. If the photos are the problem, this does not fix the photos.
- It cannot promise you a number of dates, and we will not invent one to sound confident.
- Dating apps restrict automation in their terms and enforce it as they see fit. That decision stays yours.
- It stops at the introduction. The date is yours, and so is everything after it.